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Apr 28, 2009

What Girls do that Bug Guys (2008)

So here is a list that girls do that bug guys. I know it says 2008, I wasn't able to find a 2009, but I know that they are basically the same. I will write down the lists, and then comment about the ones I think are true that bug me that girls do, or what I think is stupid. So I will start now.


What Girls do that Bug Guys (2008)


-When they talk too much (Ha, ha)
-When they never talk to me
-When they give you the silent treatment
-When they hold grudges
-When they pass notes
-When they text all the time
-When they don't address problems, usually making things worse
-When they tell secrets to each other when you're around
-When they keep pestering about a question they have
-When they expect people to know what they're thinking
-When they say they are fine when they are really not
-When they stay mad at you for a long time for no reason
-When they lie
-When they whine (a lot)
-When they fight over small things
-When they cry to get their way
-When they cut conversations short
-When they have their own language
-When they have their own inside jokes
-When they swear
-When they think that they're all that
-When they avoid you
-When they're drama queens
-When they say that they're fat
-When they wear too much makeup
-When they stare in the mirror
-When they worry about their hair
-When they compare themselves to others
-When they point out their flaws
-When they have no self confidence
-When they fish for compliments
-When they can't accept a compliment
-When they want to be surrounded by boys 24/7
-When they chase after boys before they are sixteen
-When they wear immodest clothing
-When they dress in ways that tempt boys
-When they wear low cut shirts
-When they use you to get to a friend
-When they are always flaunty
-When they are always flirty
-When they have a different boy every week
-When they like a boy but are scared to talk to them
-When they always notice your clothes
-When they play with their hair
-When they chew gum (plenty of guys chew gum, too)
-When they giggle
-When they are cry babies
-When they sing too much
-When they laugh that annoying laugh (some people just laugh like that)
-When they scream that high-pitched scream
-When they act dumb
-When they act ditsy
-When they go around in packs (boys go around in packs, too!)
-When they can't make a decision
-When they change their mind a lot
-When they are way emotional
-When they are holier than thou attitude
-When they have an obsession with things being clean
-When they are a perfectionist
-When they always have to be in control
-When they turn everyone against you when they are mad
-When they are mean to each other
-When they make fun of you
-When they gossip
-When they talk bad about other people
-When they spread rumors
-When they are rude
-When they are bratty
-When they are stuck-up
-When they fake in front of other people
-When they are mean just because they have had a bad day
-When they let little things get under their skin (I would just like to let you know...)
-When they worry about unnecessary things
-When they hit you because you can't hit them back (I HATE that!)
-When they don't take responsibility for their actions
-When they think that everything is gross
-When they are hypocrites (before you go off saying that, I would like to point out...)
-When they think boys don't go through anything
-When they cost a lot of money (ugh)
-When they are girly girls and won't do any sports (that bugs me!)
-When they hate the outdoors
-When they are too safe
-When they hate eating in front of guys (girls, eat. Don't go anorexic! News flash! Makes ya look worse!)
-When they act immature
-When they shop... constantly
-When they talk weird (guys talk weird too. Yeah, man)
-When they say "um" or "like" too much
-When they only talk about the mall
-When they only talk about cheerleading (that's totally not a sport, girls)
-When they have boy hair (Rude! I know plenty of girls with boy hair, thank you very much!)
-When they are Gothic (ick)
-When they are spastic

Apr 27, 2009

Are You a Dateable Person? For Girls! Also, Things that Guys and Girls Hate About Eachother!

Well, a couple days ago in health, my friends and I got THE PAPERS. No, not the reproduction papers. The DATEABLE PAPERS: THINGS TO HELP YOU WIN YOUR FIRST DATE! FOR GUYS AND GIRLS!
So, I have decided to type all of them down for those who are having trouble walking up to that guy or girl you absolutely adore and go, "Hey!" and do a smooth move that will sure to have them notice you! Well, first I will do things for the girls. Although guys do make the first move...

Advice for Girls
From the book Dateable: Are you? (And from my health class at school)

Be Mysterious! There is just something about a girl you don't know anything about. She's mysterious. She's intriguing. A guy will do anything to pursue her and discover the unknown.

Guys want a Challenge! They enjoy the chase and winning the prize. They want to be the knight in shining armor that saves the princess.

Don't Whip the Guy, Girls! The last thing a guy wants is to be whipped, because it means you are controlling him. It damages his ego and makes him feel less like a man.

Guys like Girls to be Girly! (This is something I DO NOT get! Some girly-girls are so annoying!) They like that you smell good and your skin is soft. They like that you are different from them.

Common Mistakes that make Girls less Mysterious:

1.
Marathon Phone Calls. You think the longer you talk the more compatible you are. When you give him all the hidden info there is nothing left to chase. He might act like he wants to talk forever, but he doesn't. He will get overloaded and lose interest fast. Keep the conversation short, 15-30 minutes max. Be the one to end the phone call; that makes him want more. Set a timer if you have to; tell him you have other things to do, etc. It will make you more mysterious.

2.
Don't call or ask the guy out. You might be impatient and tired of waiting for him to make the fist move, but guys like to do the chasing. If there is no chasing involved they guy will get bored and lost interest. He is letting you take the risk of being rejected. He is not standing up and being a man.

3. Telling your secrets. This is a way that females connect emotionally, but guys can't deal with it and may become uncomfortable. When they become uncomfortable they will want to create space and will start avoiding you. Guys just want to have fun and adventure, they don't want to hear all about your life traumas. Remember this relationship will end and when it does, you're stuck with someone who knows your deepest secrets and no loyalty.

4. Don't plan the date. One of the best ways to tell if a guy is really into you is to see what kind of effort he puts into dating you. A guy will work hard for something he wants. So let him take control. You can give suggestions for what you would like, or if you want to do something cool in town, tell him. If he isn't willing to plan something for you, he isn't really interested in you.

5. Don't pay for the date. A guy will spend money on something that he thinks is valuable. Girls, you are playing all the time, the guy will start feeling really weird. Most guys will start feeling like less of a man, maybe without even knowing why.

6. Don't accept a date on short notice. If you accept the date, you will be seen as the go-to girl for when he doesn't have anything better to do. If the guy is interested he will figure out how to get on your social calendar.

7. Girls pay off. What I am talking about is any physical gratification. It could be holding hands. It could be a hug. A kiss. Guys are looking for anything that will feed their egos and satisfy their desire for the physical. And girls often give it freely. Giving your affection to a guy right away doesn't make you more valuable. It doesn't make him like you more. You just gave him a prize without him fighting for it. If a guy doesn't invest the time and energy to get you, you become worthless.

Guys want to put the effort into you. They want you to be a challenge. Yes, if given the chance they will take the lazy way out. They will let you do everything. But that is not what attracts them. That is not what keeps them coming back for more. They have to pursue. They have to plan, to pay. They have got to have the challenge. If you want a guy to know how valuable you are, you have to act like you are valuable.

Alright, now I am going to do the thing that girls do that bug guys on the post above. Go look!

Ciao for now,
Lizzy

Apr 26, 2009

Sorry

I got a new layout but won't be able to change the colors just yet. I will try to do that as soon as you can possibly be possible. PS, I love the movie Singin in the Rain
Ciao,
Lizzy

Apr 19, 2009

Funny

I know this is completely random, but I just have to write this down before I forget. Okay, so Elena was really mad at Hoppers (Eric's Webkinz. She thinks he's alive because Eric pretends to be him) because he was wearing her ballerina dress. So she shouted at him,
"Hoppers, you are the meanest person in the nanaburst!" (universe)
Hah hah!
That just never gets old.
Well, that's all.
Ciao for now!
Lizzy

Apr 2, 2009

You Know What? I am Sick and Tired of Things Moving My Teeth!

Hooray!
I got my braces off yesterday!
Waah!
I got my retainer today.
Ew.
I have to learn how to eat with it.
Not fun.
At least my teeth are straight!
Well, see ya later!
Ciao,
Lizzy